Urologist

I'm still having plumbing problems. So I went to a urologist. He was hot! What I won't do to get fingered. He said my prostate was okay and saw no reason for my plumbing situation.

He did give me some drug samples. Don't know why he gave me them since I'm allegedly okay.

Chiflaco out.

I saw Mike Today!

Mike called me this morning and asked if I needed to go to the store. Of course I said yes, Jean-Luc needs food and I need Pepsi.

He's looking good. He can talk somewhat, he slurs his words. I only slur when I drink. He lied and said I'm looking good. Best friends are such great liars.

We chatted a lot and got caught up on our lives. Yesterday was exciting for him, he ate actual food. He had a dental appointment and they numbed his mouth and he was able to eat without feeling pain.

He starts chemo/radiation next month. He had his hair shorn short and he said the salon will shave his head for free if his hair falls out due to the chemo. Something to look forward to.

It was a short visit but we'll see each other tomorrow. He's taking me out to lunch. Also will be great to see Tony. I haven't seen them since April.

Chiflaco out.

Mental Health Day

Went to the psychiatrist today. I have to go periodically for my sleeping pills. He seemed very interested in my trip to Paris and my reading everything. Right now I'm reading a memoir of a Holocaust survivor.

Also saw my therapist. She was also interested on the Holocaust. She also said I was an intellectual of all things. I have so much to offer but don't know where to get started.

I recently looked up info on publishing a book. They all say to start with a literary agent which I have. They've actually contacted me and I don't know how they got my number, but they called for more information.

I have a vague outline that I want to turn into a memoir. We'll see what happens.

Chiflaco out.

Yet Another Mike Update

I was pleasantly surprised Friday when I got a call from Mike. He's doing great and we had an actual conversation. He's able to talk a little and he can now eat soup.

He's going to the doctor's this week to get information on radiation and chemotherapy. Also on the agenda is house hunting. He lives in Boerne and he doesn't like it. We're hoping to find a home in the city limits. The joke is it must have a mother-in-law suite for me!

I hope he finds something suitable.

Chiflaco out.

Great Weather!

I'm really enjoy the weather we've been blessed with lately. The weather has been unseasonally cool and I love it. I get to open the window to let some fresh air in the house.

It's so cool that I'm not used to it. I'm used to 80's or 90's weather this time of year. We've been having 70's or low 80's weather.

I just hope this lasts for a long while.

Chiflaco out.

Dr's Visit

Went to the doctor's to get lab results. Everything is fine. Good cholesterol, no diabetes, T-cell count 100, Viral load 480. Kidneys are okay as well as my liver. I'm in good shape.

I did bring up my swollen foot and he gave me a script for that along with a water pill. My foot is okay after yesterday's podiatrist visit.

Chiflaco out.

Almost Humpday

I wish I had something to write about but there's nothing going on. I'm in routine mode. I wake up, have toast and coffee, watch a movie, and nap.

Mike's doing great. We're texting more often now. He actually went to church Sunday. But he says he went home and took a 3-hour nap. His body telling him he needs rest.

I'm not quite sure but I think he said he was going to work Monday. I don't see how. I hope I read his text wrong. I would wait until the radiation to see how I feel. But that's me. I'll call Tony tomorrow and see what's what.

Chiflaco out.

Mike Update

 Mike is doing great. He's at home recuperating. He still can't talk much. He says it hurts to talk. We text each day. And I talk to Tony periodically. We're both concerned as you might imagine.

Wish I could visit but they live in Boerne and there's no bus going out there. I have to rely on text or phone calls. I'll just have to be content with that for now.

Chiflaco out.

Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana

The Royal baby has arrived. Born Saturday 2 May. Prince William and Kate are happy to welcome Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana to the fold.

Her name is significant. Charlotte is the female version of Charles, William's father. Elizabeth in honour of the Queen. Diana in honour of the late Princess Diana.

She is fourth in line to the throne and joins big brother Prince George.

Real excited for the Royals.

Chiflaco out.

Uneventful Week

I didn't do much this weekend. The elevator kept me home for the most part. Same goes for this week. The big to-do was getting my tube taken out. It's great to sleep on my tum like I like to.

I had blood drawn for my labs. And I saw my doctor to get results from my ultrasound. Everything looks good. He is referring me to a urologist. I've been having plumbing problems. He also gave me a new med for my problems. I just hope they work.

Jean-Luc is back to normal. He knew there was something amiss last week. He's able to jump on my lap with no tube in the way. I missed him.

Chiflaco out.

Back In Order

He took the tube out! Yay! I'm pleased. He said I probably got the hernia from the weight loss. Guess fat's the way to be healthy. He also said I should take it easy for the next two weeks.

Also great news. The elevator is working again! No more stairs for this sick bitch. When I came home it was a great relief that it was working again. First thing I did was take out recyclables. I do my part for the environment.

Now I get to sleep comfortably again. And I'm able to tolerate Jean-Luc on my tum again. He's happy too.

Chiflaco out.

Latest Update

The elevator is still out of order. I actually went down today. I went to the library. It was an ordeal but I had to do it. It was murder. I was also available to receive a delivery from my pharmacy.

I came home and passed out. I then went out again to the doctor to have this tube taken out. He was unavailable and I had to reschedule. I also had a late lunch at the Mexican Manhattan.

I also talked to Mike and he might be released tomorrow. Yay. That means I should have my old friend soon. Mary's still coming down tomorrow and help with the transition. I hope he's released and I can have my Mike back. I know Tony's also looking forward to it.

Keep your fingers crossed.

Chiflaco out.

Mike's Going Home Again

Heard from Mike today. We text because he still can't talk. He is going home either today or tomorrow. Either way, we're excited.

His sister will be coming over from Austin to help in the transition. Yay Mary. Yes her name is Mary, although Mike can be called Mary also, among other names.

He said I could go and be a nurse. I replied I would make a good Nurse Ratchet. I'm glad he's going home. I just wish I could talk to him. I miss him.

Chiflaco out.

Elevator Out Of Order---AGAIN!

Yes, the elevator is out of order again. It was out of order last Monday when I had my surgery. I had to schlep eight floors. It was not fun. I got up here out of breath and ready for a nap.

It's out of order again this week and it's still as strenuous as ever. I have a bad left knee and callouses on both feet. It hurts to use the stairs.

I have a doctor's appointment today hopefully to remove my drainage tube. I'm not draining as much and I don't think I need it anymore. Not to mention sleep will be easier for me.

Keep your fingers crossed.

Chiflaco out.

Recuperating

I'm recuperating fine. The best thing is that I'm sleeping well. The pain has subsided but I'm still a bit tender. The bad thing is that Jean-Luc feels out of sorts. He can't jump on my lap as before because he likes to rub against my belly and that's where I'm tender the most.

It hurts to feed him. I have to bend down to fill his dish and it's a pain to do so. We actually had a fight this morning he was so needy. But I let him jump in my lap for some quality time. He'll survive.

Chiflaco out.

Ouch!

I had my surgery today. It went well. I was there about four hours. I just didn't know it was gonna be so painful. My abdomen feels like a ton of bricks. Every movement is painful.

Kinda difficult to find a good position. Don't know how I will sleep tonight. I just know I'm exhausted and in dire need of sleep.

My wonderful nieces picked me up at the hospital. They are so loving and special. I'm blessed to have them in my life. Of course it was love at first sight when I saw them in the nursery.

We share a lot of memories and are still making some new ones. We just went to lunch Saturday and it was a nice visit. I wish I could see them more often but they live on the South side and we don't have as much time together as I'd like. We make due with our quality time.

Chiflaco out.

Bad Boy

I had a grapefruit for breakfast. It was delish!

Chiflaco out.

Latest On Mike

I went to the dental school yesterday. I need to see a periodontist but have to go through the dental school first. They did an examination but were not able to do anything for me because my t-cell count is under 200. Their protocol.

They did refer me to the periodontal school but don't know what their protocol is regarding HIV.

Since I was in the medical center I decided to visit Mike. He's still in ICU and I got to see him. He's doing better but cannot speak for now. He communicates with facial gestures and written notes.

His sister was there with him. She's been an angel. She's been with him all week and guards him like a dog. She's almost ready to go back to work but she worries that he'll be alone.

I only stayed about 15 minutes. He couldn't speak and I got a little uneasy. So long as he knows that I'm still there for him.

Chiflaco out.

Grapefruit

One of the drawbacks of having AIDS is that you can't have grapefruit products. I love grapefruit. Nothing like peeling a grapefruit and enjoying the meat inside.

I was at the store today and they looked gorgeous. They called out to me and medication be damned, I bought two. I love the aroma as I peeled into my fruit. And it was so delicious.

Chiflaco out.

Prayers For Mike

I got home from the doctor to a phone call from Tony. Mike's not doing well. He took a turn for the worst last night and started bleeding again. He was rushed into surgery this morning and he's now in ICU with no visitors allowed. Poor baby.

He's got a long road ahead but he's a fighter and he will pull through. We have so much to look forward too. We just got the Majestic Broadway series and we're looking forward to some musicals coming up.

Please keep Mike in your prayers. It's all appreciated.

Chiflaco out.