I've not been having anything to blog lately. Just had another quiet week. Nothing out of the ordinary.
I did go out to breakfast with Mike yesterday. Sometimes we just need time alone. We had a fun time as usual. We got to cruise some hot guys. Funny how club people go to Jim's after a hard night of clubbing.
At least I think these are club people. Who else is gonna be with a hot stud for breakfast? I ain't dumb. It makes for a good story.
Today Victoria had a Fiesta party. I baked some cookies that were devoured greedily. I went over for an hour or so. I just felt so out of place. I just ate and ran.
Nothing else.
For some reason FaceBook has disabled my account. I have contacted them quite frequently and they do not respond. Poor customer service.
27 April 2014
22 April 2014
Easter
Are you sitting down? I went to Easter service with Mike and Tony. Hard to believe the church didn't burn down and there was no lightening. It was overcast though.
We went to Metropolitan Community Church. That's a gay church. Everyone was very friendly and shook my hand and made me feel welcome.
The service was different than the Catholic services I'm used to. They did do communion which I did not participate in. There was a lot of singing and hand waving. It was interesting.
The best part of it was that we went to lunch afterward. Hey, if I don't have to cook, it's great. We went to EZ's and had burgers and pizza. The plus is they serve Pepsi, you know me and Pepsi. It just tastes a whole lot better than other colas.
Chiflaco out.
We went to Metropolitan Community Church. That's a gay church. Everyone was very friendly and shook my hand and made me feel welcome.
The service was different than the Catholic services I'm used to. They did do communion which I did not participate in. There was a lot of singing and hand waving. It was interesting.
The best part of it was that we went to lunch afterward. Hey, if I don't have to cook, it's great. We went to EZ's and had burgers and pizza. The plus is they serve Pepsi, you know me and Pepsi. It just tastes a whole lot better than other colas.
Chiflaco out.
19 April 2014
Leticia
Went to lunch with Leticia Thursday. We haven't seen each other in two years. She used to work downtown so we were able to see each other frequently. But her work relocated to the Pearl Brewery and we kind of lost track of each other.
We went to pick up her fiancé. Just found out she's getting married. Friday of all days. Mike is a good guy. They seem well suited for each other. I'm glad for her. We had a great lunch at Luther's. We visited and laughed.
She was getting married Friday and I forgot all about it. Some friend I turned out to be. I had hoped to be the flower girl. LOL. I could just see me drizzling petals down the aisle! Good for her.
Chiflaco out.
We went to pick up her fiancé. Just found out she's getting married. Friday of all days. Mike is a good guy. They seem well suited for each other. I'm glad for her. We had a great lunch at Luther's. We visited and laughed.
She was getting married Friday and I forgot all about it. Some friend I turned out to be. I had hoped to be the flower girl. LOL. I could just see me drizzling petals down the aisle! Good for her.
Chiflaco out.
15 April 2014
I Hate VIA!!!
For those that don't know, VIA is the transit system here in San Antonio. The nuns used to say not to use the word hate because it is too strong. Well, I abhor, detest, and loathe VIA.
They recently introduced an electronic bus fare program. You swipe the card and it's good for 31 days. Sounds easy. One would think.
People swipe and swipe and the thing says 'Card not Valid.' No matter how many times we swipe we get that obnoxious announcement. It slows down everybody. We that are on the bus already are frustrated at this. The people getting on get frustrated. We look forward to the ding that allows us to get on board.
The other way to get on is to insert the card the first time you use it and it's good for the 31 days. When we swipe and it doesn't go through, we can insert the card and it will let us on. Most often than not, the bus driver gets frustrated also and snatches the card from us and inserts it.
Also, for paying riders, they have to pay and this slows the bus down also. It sometimes takes a few tries for it to accept dollar bills and the person and the bus driver both get frustrated.
When one gets on with a half-off ID, one shows the ID and swipes the bus pass. Again, one gets that obnoxious message, 'Card Not Valid.' When it finally registers, we get the message to 'Please Show ID.' Again, frustrating.
They need to figure out a better way to do this. In the old days I just showed my bus pass and got on. Now I have to swipe and show my ID. When we go shopping, we have to balance our shopping to get on board.
Chiflaco out.
They recently introduced an electronic bus fare program. You swipe the card and it's good for 31 days. Sounds easy. One would think.
People swipe and swipe and the thing says 'Card not Valid.' No matter how many times we swipe we get that obnoxious announcement. It slows down everybody. We that are on the bus already are frustrated at this. The people getting on get frustrated. We look forward to the ding that allows us to get on board.
The other way to get on is to insert the card the first time you use it and it's good for the 31 days. When we swipe and it doesn't go through, we can insert the card and it will let us on. Most often than not, the bus driver gets frustrated also and snatches the card from us and inserts it.
Also, for paying riders, they have to pay and this slows the bus down also. It sometimes takes a few tries for it to accept dollar bills and the person and the bus driver both get frustrated.
When one gets on with a half-off ID, one shows the ID and swipes the bus pass. Again, one gets that obnoxious message, 'Card Not Valid.' When it finally registers, we get the message to 'Please Show ID.' Again, frustrating.
They need to figure out a better way to do this. In the old days I just showed my bus pass and got on. Now I have to swipe and show my ID. When we go shopping, we have to balance our shopping to get on board.
Chiflaco out.
13 April 2014
Family Luncheon
Debra's birthday was Thursday. Of course I called her up to wish her a fabulous birthday. I also invited everyone out for lunch in her honor.
Debra and Larry, Barbara, Jerry, Matthew, and Lauren went. My immediate family. I also invited Oscar, Larry's father. We had a great time. We went for Chinese buffet. I had some Chinese food, but they also had some pot roast and I went for it. The smashed taters were good and I also tried the ribs and they were succulent not the usual tough ribs.
I also had some tres leches cake that was out of this world. Usually the desserts at the buffets are tasteless and frozen but this was not. A girl can tell.
We took some photos as well and I can't believe how ugly I look. I had no idea. Honey, I'm not gonna be in a relationship any time soon.
I usually detox after a relationship. Usually it's a five year stretch with no action. This time around I'm going on ten years. I don't think I remember how to get things started again. Mike says it's like riding a bike, thing is I never learned to ride one.
Oh well, I've come this far. I don't need anyone anyway. I have Jean-Luc and my family. I did forget to include Mike. He's like a brother I never had. Okay I have a brother, but he's not much of a brother. He's never talked to me. His loss.
Chiflaco out.
Debra and Larry, Barbara, Jerry, Matthew, and Lauren went. My immediate family. I also invited Oscar, Larry's father. We had a great time. We went for Chinese buffet. I had some Chinese food, but they also had some pot roast and I went for it. The smashed taters were good and I also tried the ribs and they were succulent not the usual tough ribs.
I also had some tres leches cake that was out of this world. Usually the desserts at the buffets are tasteless and frozen but this was not. A girl can tell.
We took some photos as well and I can't believe how ugly I look. I had no idea. Honey, I'm not gonna be in a relationship any time soon.
I usually detox after a relationship. Usually it's a five year stretch with no action. This time around I'm going on ten years. I don't think I remember how to get things started again. Mike says it's like riding a bike, thing is I never learned to ride one.
Oh well, I've come this far. I don't need anyone anyway. I have Jean-Luc and my family. I did forget to include Mike. He's like a brother I never had. Okay I have a brother, but he's not much of a brother. He's never talked to me. His loss.
Chiflaco out.
06 April 2014
Ladies Who Lunch
Went to lunch with Mike and Tony. We went to a semi-usual hangout, Luther's. It's a nice family restaurant in the gay neighborhood. We had our usual ditzy waiter Javier who always makes us feel welcome.
I had the brisket sandwich and it was scrumptious. There was a lot of brisket and Tony made the comment that that was a lot of meat for that bun. I forgot what they had because I'm still savoring my meal.
We also had dessert. Anyone who knows me knows that I'm not much of a dessert person. Okay, I bake, but I prefer to share the goodies. I had something called Heavenly Chocolate and it was!
Chocolate cake with chocolate liquor and two scoops of Bluebell ice cream. It was orgasmic and I highly recommend this.
It's always nice to go out with the boys. I can feel the love at the table. And I am truly blessed to have them in my life. Here's to many more fun times.
Chiflaco out.
I had the brisket sandwich and it was scrumptious. There was a lot of brisket and Tony made the comment that that was a lot of meat for that bun. I forgot what they had because I'm still savoring my meal.
We also had dessert. Anyone who knows me knows that I'm not much of a dessert person. Okay, I bake, but I prefer to share the goodies. I had something called Heavenly Chocolate and it was!
Chocolate cake with chocolate liquor and two scoops of Bluebell ice cream. It was orgasmic and I highly recommend this.
It's always nice to go out with the boys. I can feel the love at the table. And I am truly blessed to have them in my life. Here's to many more fun times.
Chiflaco out.
05 April 2014
Quiet Week
Nothing much going on this week. I have been having tummy trouble and am munching on Tums and Maalox. I've mostly stayed home this week.
Mike and I went to breakfast today. There were some cute guys sitting across from us and he got the full view. I did an Exorcist turn and saw the guy Mike pointed out. He was a hottie with a fabulous schnozz. There was also one that looked like Dan Radcliffe. Mike said he thought of them having a three-way. I'd love to see that.
Then we went to the store. Mike is a sweetie as ya'll know. He lives in the Medical Center and comes all the way downtown to take me shopping. I think he worries a bit about me. Had an uneventful time at the store. No hot guys. Too bad.
Chiflaco out.
Mike and I went to breakfast today. There were some cute guys sitting across from us and he got the full view. I did an Exorcist turn and saw the guy Mike pointed out. He was a hottie with a fabulous schnozz. There was also one that looked like Dan Radcliffe. Mike said he thought of them having a three-way. I'd love to see that.
Then we went to the store. Mike is a sweetie as ya'll know. He lives in the Medical Center and comes all the way downtown to take me shopping. I think he worries a bit about me. Had an uneventful time at the store. No hot guys. Too bad.
Chiflaco out.
01 April 2014
How I Met Your Mother
OMG! The series ended. And it was a shocker. After years of telling the story of how Ted met the mother of his kids, they finally meet and live happily ever after...for a while.
Tracy dies! After all that. They had the perfect relationship. And then they kill her off! The kids tell Ted that he should date Robin and the show ends with him going to her apartment.
All in all, I was pleased with the outcome. It is sad to see them go, but it had to end. Now I have nothing to watch on Monday nights.
Chiflaco out.
Tracy dies! After all that. They had the perfect relationship. And then they kill her off! The kids tell Ted that he should date Robin and the show ends with him going to her apartment.
All in all, I was pleased with the outcome. It is sad to see them go, but it had to end. Now I have nothing to watch on Monday nights.
Chiflaco out.
31 March 2014
Quiet Weekend
Nothing much went on this weekend. I did do lunch with Mike Saturday. We went to The Mexican Manhattan for Tex-Mex food. Then we came home and he put together my new entertainment center.
I bought one last week and I tried to put it together but I could only do so much because of my right shoulder. I woke up in pain one morning months ago and it's still tender. I bless my lucking stars for a great friend like Mike. Eddie used to say I was blessed with Mike. Good karma follows me around.
Chiflaco out.
I bought one last week and I tried to put it together but I could only do so much because of my right shoulder. I woke up in pain one morning months ago and it's still tender. I bless my lucking stars for a great friend like Mike. Eddie used to say I was blessed with Mike. Good karma follows me around.
Chiflaco out.
26 March 2014
Birthday Girl
Happy 70th Birthday to Ms Ross. I've seen her twice and she rocks. Of course I always think of Trevor, a coming of age story that I highly recommend. This means I will be listening to her CDs all day long.
25 March 2014
Chest Pains
Wednesday in yoga class I felt a sharp pain in my chest. It was very painful. I didn't feel better all week. Sunday it just felt worse so I decided to go to the hospital.
I was in the ER for five hours. They did an EKG and my heart was normal but they wanted to run some tests. Yesterday I took several MRIs. Today the cardiologist said everything was okay. So what was the pain?
It did help that they gave me morphine. That got rid of my pain but they wanted to keep me in observation. Whatever it was disappeared. Maybe I needed attention.
Anyhooooooo, it's nice to be home. I left a mixing bowlful of food for Jean-Luc. I also gave him some fresh water. I just walked in the door and JL had eaten everything. It's nice to be needed.
Chiflaco out.
I was in the ER for five hours. They did an EKG and my heart was normal but they wanted to run some tests. Yesterday I took several MRIs. Today the cardiologist said everything was okay. So what was the pain?
It did help that they gave me morphine. That got rid of my pain but they wanted to keep me in observation. Whatever it was disappeared. Maybe I needed attention.
Anyhooooooo, it's nice to be home. I left a mixing bowlful of food for Jean-Luc. I also gave him some fresh water. I just walked in the door and JL had eaten everything. It's nice to be needed.
Chiflaco out.
22 March 2014
Saturday
What a wasted day. I woke up with my knee swollen and a case of diarrhea, so that meant no yoga for today. I felt cheated. I really like going to class even though I can't perform like I'd like.
The rest of the day was a blur. I tried to nap, I really need to sleep, but I couldn't. I was just a schlub all day. No energy whatsoever.
I did catch up on some DVDs. If you haven't seen it, there's a campy movie called Die Mommie Die. Charles Busch is Angela a once popular chanteuse who lives with her husband and two adult children.
When the husband dies, all fingers point to Angela. It's up to the kids to figure out the mystery. Not an award winning film, but hysterical nonetheless.
Then I watched Breaking Dawn Part 2. The continuing saga of Bella and Edward. You just have to root for these two. She decides to become a vampire also and marries Edward, the love of her life. Just about as good as the books.
Chiflaco out.
The rest of the day was a blur. I tried to nap, I really need to sleep, but I couldn't. I was just a schlub all day. No energy whatsoever.
I did catch up on some DVDs. If you haven't seen it, there's a campy movie called Die Mommie Die. Charles Busch is Angela a once popular chanteuse who lives with her husband and two adult children.
When the husband dies, all fingers point to Angela. It's up to the kids to figure out the mystery. Not an award winning film, but hysterical nonetheless.
Then I watched Breaking Dawn Part 2. The continuing saga of Bella and Edward. You just have to root for these two. She decides to become a vampire also and marries Edward, the love of her life. Just about as good as the books.
Chiflaco out.
19 March 2014
Yoga
I was a bad boy yesterday. I skipped class because I was in a lot of pain. My muscles were aching and I could feel my body stretched out of proportion. Like I said, I was energized and exhausted at the same time. I stayed home and took some Tylenol and took it easy looking forward to a night out with the boys.
Today I woke up and didn't feel like going. I stayed in and did nothing and tried to recuperate. Then I remembered there's an evening class I can go to. So off I went.
Class was fun and I had great difficulty doing the postures. There were more men in this class and they were all shirtless. I felt out of place. I'm not about to show this pathetic body to anyone.
People are very supportive and we high fived each other after class. I must say the men are very friendly. I did get cruised by a couple of guys, and they were hot. Okay I'm not there for the men, I'm there for me. I just go and do my business and that's it.
But it'd be nice....
Chiflaco out.
Today I woke up and didn't feel like going. I stayed in and did nothing and tried to recuperate. Then I remembered there's an evening class I can go to. So off I went.
Class was fun and I had great difficulty doing the postures. There were more men in this class and they were all shirtless. I felt out of place. I'm not about to show this pathetic body to anyone.
People are very supportive and we high fived each other after class. I must say the men are very friendly. I did get cruised by a couple of guys, and they were hot. Okay I'm not there for the men, I'm there for me. I just go and do my business and that's it.
But it'd be nice....
Chiflaco out.
18 March 2014
Wicked
Went to go see Wicked again. Awesome. Mike and I saw it two years ago but Tony hadn't seen it, so there we went. I swear I saw a different show this time around. I told Mike maybe it's because of the hearing aids.
Whatever, it was a night out and I haven't had one in a long time. It was nice being out in my hood at night I'm usually in bed mode around 9 or so. If you haven't seen it, go.
We had dinner at the Houston St Bistro and it was scrumptious. I'd been there before with Leticia so I readily recommended it. It was Tony's birthday so Mike wanted to go somewhere special. Tony and I had the chicken cordon bleu and Mike had the special that came with tiramisu which we all shared.
http://houstonstbistro.com/
It was funny. I bumped into a neighbor and he did a double take. I'm usually in shorts and a polo shirt and tonight I was in Dockers and a nice button down shirt and dressy shoes. He couldn't believe it. I do have a flair for dressing up. And I love getting dressed and getting the attention. Guess I still got it.
Chiflaco out.
Whatever, it was a night out and I haven't had one in a long time. It was nice being out in my hood at night I'm usually in bed mode around 9 or so. If you haven't seen it, go.
We had dinner at the Houston St Bistro and it was scrumptious. I'd been there before with Leticia so I readily recommended it. It was Tony's birthday so Mike wanted to go somewhere special. Tony and I had the chicken cordon bleu and Mike had the special that came with tiramisu which we all shared.
http://houstonstbistro.com/
It was funny. I bumped into a neighbor and he did a double take. I'm usually in shorts and a polo shirt and tonight I was in Dockers and a nice button down shirt and dressy shoes. He couldn't believe it. I do have a flair for dressing up. And I love getting dressed and getting the attention. Guess I still got it.
Chiflaco out.
17 March 2014
Bikram Yoga
Well, I finally did it. I've been meaning to do this for some time but something always came up, bad weather, not feeling well. I went to yoga class today. I'm exhausted and invigorated at the same time.
Bikram Yoga is yoga with the heat turned on, literally. They have the studio on high and you feel it as soon as you walk in. I did the postures to the best of my ability. I do not have the flexibility I used to have when I did yoga before. It was downright hard.
I actually sweated. I normally don't sweat so this was a first for me. There were some postures where we had to hold on to our foot but I sweated so much it was just too difficult to do them. And my knee kept popping throughout the class.
My instructor is HOT! I couldn't help but notice he had his ear pierced several times. And then he came to class shirtless and the tiniest shorts I've ever seen on a man and I couldn't help but notice his box...delicious.
There were some other hot guys in class and most of them were just in shorts. I think I was the only one with a shirt on and it stuck to me like there's no tomorrow. There was this one hairy guy I couldn't take my eyes off. He was short and I noticed a wedding band, not that that's stopped me before.
Everybody was friendly and supportive. I actually made it through the entire class. They have a special for newbies, 10 sessions for $20. Not bad. I'll just have to buy a package that fits my budget. I really want to pursue this. Plus I just got a call from Humana saying that I can use the YMCA for free. They also have yoga classes available.
Yoga is spiritually and mentally good as well. I'm hoping to lose my paunch and regain some flexibility. I started out slow, but by the end of class I felt real comfortable.
http://bikramyogasa.com/
Chiflaco out.
Bikram Yoga is yoga with the heat turned on, literally. They have the studio on high and you feel it as soon as you walk in. I did the postures to the best of my ability. I do not have the flexibility I used to have when I did yoga before. It was downright hard.
I actually sweated. I normally don't sweat so this was a first for me. There were some postures where we had to hold on to our foot but I sweated so much it was just too difficult to do them. And my knee kept popping throughout the class.
My instructor is HOT! I couldn't help but notice he had his ear pierced several times. And then he came to class shirtless and the tiniest shorts I've ever seen on a man and I couldn't help but notice his box...delicious.
There were some other hot guys in class and most of them were just in shorts. I think I was the only one with a shirt on and it stuck to me like there's no tomorrow. There was this one hairy guy I couldn't take my eyes off. He was short and I noticed a wedding band, not that that's stopped me before.
Everybody was friendly and supportive. I actually made it through the entire class. They have a special for newbies, 10 sessions for $20. Not bad. I'll just have to buy a package that fits my budget. I really want to pursue this. Plus I just got a call from Humana saying that I can use the YMCA for free. They also have yoga classes available.
Yoga is spiritually and mentally good as well. I'm hoping to lose my paunch and regain some flexibility. I started out slow, but by the end of class I felt real comfortable.
http://bikramyogasa.com/
Chiflaco out.
16 March 2014
Eddie
Eddie and I had plans for dinner yesterday. I called him up when dinner was ready and he didn't answer. So I ate by myself and saved some for him.
Still no answer today. Evelyn and Victoria were worried about him and they went by his place and he was talking through the door but was unable to answer the door for some reason.
Evelyn got worried and called 911. The firemen showed up and found Eddie dead on the floor. He must've just passed away. We don't know of any services planned yet. We have to wait to hear from his sister.
He wasn't in good health, he was in the hospital three times this winter. And he didn't take care of himself. He hated me to worry about his health.
Bless his heart is all I can say.
Chiflaco out.
Still no answer today. Evelyn and Victoria were worried about him and they went by his place and he was talking through the door but was unable to answer the door for some reason.
Evelyn got worried and called 911. The firemen showed up and found Eddie dead on the floor. He must've just passed away. We don't know of any services planned yet. We have to wait to hear from his sister.
He wasn't in good health, he was in the hospital three times this winter. And he didn't take care of himself. He hated me to worry about his health.
Bless his heart is all I can say.
Chiflaco out.
15 March 2014
Home
I love home. I've been here for seven years, that's the longest I've lived since leaving home. Home is comfy and everyone is welcome here. Here's a photo of my living room. I just needed Jean-Luc to make it homier.
Chiflaco out.
Chiflaco out.
14 March 2014
Jean-Luc
My baby keeps me centered and entertained. I recently got an over the door mirror to check me out. I've lost so much weight and I want to make sure I look presentable when I go out.
Jean-Luc is fascinated with the mirror. He looks at himself and thinks there's another cat in the apartment. It's funny to see him standing looking at himself in the mirror.
He's been very needy lately. He jumps in my lap when I'm watching TV and takes a nap. Luckily sometimes I've just inserted a movie and don't mind him napping away. The problem is when I have to go to the bathroom and he's in the way. I just hold it until he stretches out and I can make a mad dash to the bathroom.
He loves to nap with me. He's always waiting in bed for me when it's time for beddy-bye. He waits on his side of the bed, he knows his side. In the middle of the night I turn around and he's snoring away.
I love my baby. We just celebrated our four-year anniversary this January. Hard to believe we've known each other for such a short time. I'm so grateful to Barbara for finding him on Craigslist.
Chiflaco out.
Jean-Luc is fascinated with the mirror. He looks at himself and thinks there's another cat in the apartment. It's funny to see him standing looking at himself in the mirror.
He's been very needy lately. He jumps in my lap when I'm watching TV and takes a nap. Luckily sometimes I've just inserted a movie and don't mind him napping away. The problem is when I have to go to the bathroom and he's in the way. I just hold it until he stretches out and I can make a mad dash to the bathroom.
He loves to nap with me. He's always waiting in bed for me when it's time for beddy-bye. He waits on his side of the bed, he knows his side. In the middle of the night I turn around and he's snoring away.
I love my baby. We just celebrated our four-year anniversary this January. Hard to believe we've known each other for such a short time. I'm so grateful to Barbara for finding him on Craigslist.
Chiflaco out.
Thai Lao Orchid
Went to lunch with my favourite niece and her sister. Barbara and Debra work downtown on Broadway St. Debra invited me to lunch and we went to Thai Lao Orchid restaurant down from the office. Isabel and Andrea went also.
The food was great and it was nice to spend time with my nieces. I also made an offer to see us for lunch with the family. I haven't seen them since my Mom's funeral. I hope we get to get together. I also need updated photos of us.
Chiflaco out.
The food was great and it was nice to spend time with my nieces. I also made an offer to see us for lunch with the family. I haven't seen them since my Mom's funeral. I hope we get to get together. I also need updated photos of us.
Chiflaco out.
04 March 2014
Dr's Visit
Went to the clinic yesterday for lab results. I'm still a healthy sick man. My t-cell count went down again, 113. I'm still undetectable. My liver and kidneys are okay, my glucose level is good, my blood pressure good...great visit.
Dr Martinez was happy with my hearing aids as well. I really like him because he knows my history.
Chiflaco out.
Dr Martinez was happy with my hearing aids as well. I really like him because he knows my history.
Chiflaco out.
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